NO FAVOR GOES UNPUNISHED: ☠️ THE POLARITY KISS of DEATH

“Hey, can you do me a favor?”

No.

I mean of course I *can*....and....

I delightedly choose not to.

However, dear Man, if you provide (*1) me with a clear request or instruction, it will be my HONOR to fulfill this for you (if it’s in my capacity and/or pleasure.)

(NOTE: For me* personally, it’s kinda always in my pleasure to be of service to the Masculine and a/my Man because this is my unapologetic soul-essenced sacred purpose in this incarnation.)

AND please do understand that I must be VERY FULL in order to GIVE BACK at this level of devotion.

To be clear: I do not lift a pinky finger to give to the Masculine over the age of 10.....but I will summon the full potency of my Feminine Essenced Being as THE Great Multiplier to give **BACK** to the Masculine. Extremely important, vitally life-affirming, highly codified distinction between these 2 energetic wellsprings....)

In my world, men (not just the archetypal dimension of “the Masculine”....I do mean IRL men) are our LEADERS.

Leadership is a benevolent form of DOMINANCE.

Dominance is HIERARCHICAL.

This means....very empirically, that there needs to be a request-maker and instruction-provider (*2) in order for the follower / submissive pole holder to be “successful” and fulfill her CHOSEN and/or ORGANIC energetic positionality within the system.

So when I hear men casually throw-down “hey, can you do me a favor?”, my heart feels heavy and my highly attuned Feminine Respect Meter just plummets.

This is because I now know that this is a man who has not yet owned his rightful capacity to PROVIDE (*3) instruction, mature leadership, and an integrated COMMAND of *his* Masculine nature — which is then offered in service to the receptive / Feminine / submissive pole-holder.

When a man makes a clear request of a/his woman, he is SETTING HER UP TO WIN.

BIG.

CONSISTENTLY.

His *willingness* and courage to OWN his rightful position of leader in the hierarchical system of “intimate relationship” is a gorgeous act of love, devotion and *service* to her natural desire to PLEASE HIM and BE SUBMISSIVE TO HIM. (Hello there big fat cultural disowned Feminine shadow in the Collective Living Room.... )

And......for the women who are in the higher octaves of awakening Feminine consciousness, we know *how to use the relational codex of our intimate relationship/s* in service to his leadership. We know (through both Remembrance and new learning) how the relational template we co-create naturally entrains him/men to experience the highly potentiating template of making requests / providing (*4) instruction and having the result or outcome be precisely what he needed or wanted.

Said even more plainly (and more repulsively, quite likely ), when we as the Feminine receptor in an highly polarized ELECTRO-MAGNETIC SYSTEM can let ourselves be used as a conduit for men to have consistent experience of imposing their WILL ONTO THE WORLD through the power of their WORD (spoken decree), we are in profound vibrational contribution to his most potent expression of leadership.

Of course, the gnarly underbelly of this double-black diamond level of polarity is if the man is not yet in his BENEVOLENT dominance. There is yet another massive distinction between the imperial desire for Dominance and Empire Building (ie: he has been initiated into some degree of benevolent intent / King lineage VS. his egoic thrust into the world to get off on his own “power over” / Villain lineage.)

And actually, truth be told, both are secretly hot....and in deep service to the growth of the Feminine Soul, so I have no personal judgment if you choose to go on the high-sensation, power-over Villain Ride. (But buckle up tightly, Angelface....this one I know very intimately. )

MEN:

SHARPEN YOUR SWORDS.

BE BOLD IN YOUR REQUESTS OF US.

Bear your own discomfort and learn to decree your desires to your woman/women.

TELL US what you want and let US choose what we are willing to do — or respectfully, choose

*not* to do.

Not owning your desire and energetically penetrating your women by MAKING CLEAR REQUESTS and PROVIDING CLEAR INSTRUCTION is flabby leadership, and muddles her desire to SUBMIT To YOU — even if she can’t be in conscious relationship TO this desire nested deep in the innermost chamber of her Feminine heart.

WOMEN:

Gather the berries of his requests and instruction to you.

Place them in your basket.

Do not fill your basket with venomous snakes.

Fill it instead with sweet, succulent fruit.

*You know exactly what to do.*

It is YOU who is The Great Multiplier, and will bear the fruit of his Kingdom.

And the disclaim-y bits:

1. *Of course* I make overt requests to and of men....and you should feel 100% FREE to do so, too!

I personally choose to do so very respectfully.

I will share a link to a piece I wrote about just such a thing. (King Making 101)

2. Five very overt (and literally numbered!) little Easter Eggs in this piece related to the MULTIDIMENSIONAL nature of Masculine PROVISION.

2. Very grateful credit to Om Rupani for the influence his work and Beingness have upon my lens and lived experience.

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