DEATH OF THE BLOWJOB
Originally Written: 12/19/2018
"Ask any woman who has performed oral sex and they will confirm it certainly is a job."
~ the internet (specifically, the 1st site I found when researching the etymology of this term)
BLOW JOB:
From blow off (“to fell ate”, to blow (someone) off, a phrase which originated among prostitutes), 1933 + JOB.
"Blowsy" being a slang term for a women down on her luck or a prostitute, in the 1800's.
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If you are one to give a man a 'blow job', please do us ALL a favor-- dust off your knees, wipe off your mouth, touch up your lipstick, and GO HOME. Sadly, you are one of the Daughters of the Great Forgetting, steely and willing to sell your sacredness for a shallow sense of security.
You are throat-deep in transaction, choking on commerce.
You are of no use to our broken world because a woman who has forgotten her own magnificence can only EVER buy and sell.
You can wrap your lip-glossed lips around his cock all the live-long day but until you learn to wrap your HEART arout his sex, the only thing you are in service to is getting him off.
Don't demean yourself OR HIM by "working" to please him, by performing a "job" or "maintenance" to keep him satisfied.
It doesn't serve the man nor the woman to feel like what is being shared is something called a "blow job", the word *and* act encoded in scarcity, commerce, and obligation.
The era of the blow job is over.
In contrast to the lowly blow job, C0CK WORSHIP is a ROYAL, DEVOTIONAL, EROTIC act of creating a man as KING.
Until you can open your mouth, your throat *AND YOUR HEART* in deepest devotion, in hungriest longing to envelop his sex inside your mouth: teeth, tongue, and watering flesh, you are no vessel for the healing function of Shakti.
You are a petty worker, subjugated by every distorted thought that you have let yourself believe about what it means to truly respect and honor a man.
C0CK SUCKING **IS** SOUL SUCKING -- and until you understand this, you are unconsciously perpetuating a lineage that keeps both men and woman caged in a spell of erotic commerce and mediocrity.
The very moment you have a man's cock in your mouth, you are either an archetypal emanation of "blowsy" -- a prostitute -- a woman who does not know her own WILD BEAUTY and feels like she needs to perform a "job" to keep his love -- OR-- you are a woman who knows HOW TO CREATE a man as King, Sultan, Pharaoh, Hero, Magi, Wizard.
(Hint: You can't be both, angelface.)
The moment you place his cock in your mouth because you want something (other than HIM) or because you are trying to GET, you instantly energetically step into the archetypal lineage of prostitute consciousness.
If there is ANY part of you that does not desire him in his FULLNESS -- including swallowing his seed to be birthed within you as an expression of your devotion -- then STOP.
If you proceed, it destroys BOTH OF YOU BECAUSE IT IS A LIE.
Proceeding with "blowing him" when it is not in your HIGHEST ALIGNMENT and DESIRE instantly collapses you into a timeline of prostitute, and prevents him from birthing himself in his wholeness (as King).
As we collectively rise, these templates of inauthenticity, compromised integrity, and archaic covert timelines of The Seller (prostitute/"blowsy") and The Buyer (collapsed Masculine who uses money to "buy love" ) are going to crash.
(Interestingly, actual prostitution and sex work feels totally sustainable and clean energetically because of the overt agreement and integrity of that container. The *archetype* of the prostitute at the level of Feminine consciousness IS however an energetic leak for women who do not self-identify as actual sex workers.)
MEN: If you are letting a woman get you off at the most mechanical and basic level of heat, wetness and friction, that's cool *AND* there is ZERO magic in that game.
It will NEVER alchemize you into your greatness.
Allowing yourself to receive low-level mediocrity creates low-level mediocrity. This is law.
Please stand for something greater for yourself AND her than a woman who has forgotten who she is and lets herself perform "acts" and "jobs" in service to you.
A woman who gives "blowjobs" is a woman who is hunting, tracking the scent of what she can *get*.
Instead of an alchemical transmission and imprint of GIVING and RECEIVING THE MOST EXALTED ROYAL CODES OF REMEMBRANCE and WEALTH, you are both just colluding with each other's beliefs of scarcity and mediocrity.
There is NOTHING sexy about lovers in collusion to support each other's archaic distortions.
WOMEN: You need to remember how to wrap your heart around his cock-- not just your lips. Give *yourself* permission to enter into a <bliss> state of heart-shattering, *wild* devotion through the act of cock worship. By giving at this level of CREATION, you are preparing your heart and your energy system to receive at levels you have only let yourself imagine.
It is through this doorway of raw, primal devotion to your man / the masculine that will CAUSE HIM to create for you (and ALL of us, ps) a world that we can once again animate with our deepest feminine essence.
Devotion does not just create devotion -- it CAUSES it.
Our world would be a better place if women could understand and REMEMBER that they are THE GOLDEN CHALICE -- Cosmic Queens of the HIGHEST ORDER -- and their sex, their heart, and their devotion to the masculine...to a MAN *and* HIS C0CK... is what will begin to heal the broken-heart of our bleeding world.
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NOTE: We've ALL been siphoned down archaic languaging and expressions that are encoded to demean both men and women, as well as the erotic acts of devotion they describe. I
ts up to us -- as acts of love and devotion FIRST TO SELF, and then to other, to be in relationship to these expressions, and to consciously FEEL whether they can hold our Beauty, our Sex, and our Devotion
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